In the 21st century do we still believe that, “behind every successful man there is a woman?” I mean get over it! We all here live in a practical world and I do not see any contribution of a woman to a man’s success!
Ok let’s talk real. A man has enough power and brains to take his own decision when he has to be in office and don’t these decisions make a man successful? I mean do we see a man calling or consulting his wife and or any woman in his life to take every decision in office and life? And if any man does do it then well either he is a loser or then a man with no BALLS!!!!
So then does this mean that there are two types of men – Men who can take their own decisions and men who can’t? Are we surrounded with men who really are without balls? I mean men who can’t take their own decisions? So where do they go to seek help when they really have to take decisions – Women or men? This question kept on haunting men until a few days back when I met three people I know off who can’t take their own decisions. Thanks to them I could start my observation and experiment.
The first guy used to work in my office and works no more. Name – Prashant Prabu. The first man I saw and observed who never took his own decisions, and after I observed him for 6 weeks during my training, I realized he always ran to his dear “chuddi buddy” Ashish when it was time to take decision; then be it taking a new house on rent or then how and when to propose to a girl and well he did fairly good and he seemed happy to live in his life decided by some one else. Next on my observation list was Mr. XYZ (name not mentioned cause you never know how people might take offence, han?), who is he? Current Training Manager for the previous company I worked for. Well any decision to be taken he consulted a thousand Sr. Manager’s before he had decided a “Yes” or “No”. Well the Sr. Management of that company is dominated by men! The best is yet to come; the decision so taken if was a success XYZ was proud that HE took the decision. Ok correction here, “You never took that decision did you?” I wonder if he ever realized that fact. I pray to God he does soon and well if he doesn’t honestly “I don’t give a flying fart in space!” Then next is my very dear friend from college. His name is Sarang. What’s wrong with him? This dude is royally confused in life! He has a business of his own, and there he takes his decisions by himself, which is appreciable! So no help needed in success! But then when it came to girls and family he needed a woman to help him to take his decisions, I mean honestly I don’t know what kind of a man’s genre does he belong to - the BALLS or the NO BALLS type? So do we need to have another category?
After all of these observations it bottled down to one fact, most of the men who couldn’t take their own decisions went to men as it is rightly said – “Only a man can understand another man!” So then where did the thought of “behind every successful man there is a woman” come from? What role did women play in the success of a man’s life? The answer was – A very small and unimportant role.
So then we can conclude and change the proverb, thought, or the statement to - Behind every successful man there is the man himself. This one is for the category who could take their own decisions.
So what for those who couldn’t - Behind every successful man there is another man?
