Now a days when I hear people around me talking and discussing; out of 10 people there are at least 5 or 6 who are discussing about their sex life or then something related to someone else’s sex life and the population of the breed called “women” talk about this more. So I wonder; “Is sex so important or it’s just that people are excited to talk about it with someone they don’t have sex with?”
Well I had to get this question answered and I did not know whom to approach first, should be a girl or a guy who would be honest enough to tell me how important is sex to him/her? Basically I had two questions;
1. Who has more sex?
a) Woman
b) Man.
2. Who enjoys it more?
a) Woman
b) Man.
The more I thought about it the more it killed me; cause if I go by my personal experience then, woman have more sex and women enjoy it more and that’s the reason why they talk about it more! But this was a personal opinion and it was not satisfying enough so I had to start the questionnaire and so I did with an office colleague and a very close friend named; Suraj. To this question he responded, “Dude, obviously women have more sex and they enjoy it more.” I thought, “Well there’s another one just like me!” So I moved on and asked this question to another colleague and he responded, “Well, women have more sex and men enjoy it more.” To this I thought, “Well ok now someone’s talking!” But then these were men talking, I wanted a few women to confirm Suraj’s and mine thoughts! I could not go to my girlfriend because she could have killed me so then I decided to venture out and ask these questions to the ladies that I work with; this was not an easy task you know! Major pain to make these girls talk!
Well any ways, I finally did venture out and asked a few women. A few told me not to mention their names but these are the reactions and trust me when you read the bottom line then you shall understand the motive of this small survey that I conducted! Well the first one to answer this was a very close friend and she said that, “It’s obvious that women have more sex and they enjoy more, I mean how can you think that guys have more sex that’s an insane statement to say. You said it in front of me, don’t say it in front of anyone else ok?” she said in a tone which made me feel like I had just made a really dumb statement. Well I must say that I was happy to hear what this woman was saying. So then I said to myself, “Dude, you are getting closer to the conclusion!” As mentioned earlier I was working so I had greater access to broadminded women so I could bide my time befriend them, be comfortable with them and then ask them the two most important questions. I followed this plan and asked four women; out of which three agreed that it was women who had more sex and enjoyed it more and one said that though women have more sex than men, they do not enjoy it as much as men do. “Hmmm…what made her say that?” I thought, but couldn’t dare to ask her that. This survey was not enough for me to satisfy; I wanted more women to accept that women have more sex and enjoy it more. But this time it had to be married women and so be it. I had one friend who was married and this was what she had to say, “Familiarity breeds to contempt, we obviously want more variety!” When the same question was asked to her husband he say’s, “Well, if this question was asked to me before marriage I would love to say that I wanted variety, but now that I am married I am happy with my wife!” “Wow! Now this is what I called a happily married couple!!” The next couple was the weirdest one, both had the same thing to say and it was, “Yup man, I want more variety and enjoy it more as far as my spouse doesn’t find out!” I was in a mind frame which is called, “SHOCKED!”
Now for all you, the reason behind this small survey was to conclude that it is a myth that men have more sex and they enjoy it more; it’s actually the other way round; its women who have more sex and enjoy it more! So the next time think twice before you actually blame a man to be desperate! Thank you and wait for more!
Well I had to get this question answered and I did not know whom to approach first, should be a girl or a guy who would be honest enough to tell me how important is sex to him/her? Basically I had two questions;
1. Who has more sex?
a) Woman
b) Man.
2. Who enjoys it more?
a) Woman
b) Man.
The more I thought about it the more it killed me; cause if I go by my personal experience then, woman have more sex and women enjoy it more and that’s the reason why they talk about it more! But this was a personal opinion and it was not satisfying enough so I had to start the questionnaire and so I did with an office colleague and a very close friend named; Suraj. To this question he responded, “Dude, obviously women have more sex and they enjoy it more.” I thought, “Well there’s another one just like me!” So I moved on and asked this question to another colleague and he responded, “Well, women have more sex and men enjoy it more.” To this I thought, “Well ok now someone’s talking!” But then these were men talking, I wanted a few women to confirm Suraj’s and mine thoughts! I could not go to my girlfriend because she could have killed me so then I decided to venture out and ask these questions to the ladies that I work with; this was not an easy task you know! Major pain to make these girls talk!
Well any ways, I finally did venture out and asked a few women. A few told me not to mention their names but these are the reactions and trust me when you read the bottom line then you shall understand the motive of this small survey that I conducted! Well the first one to answer this was a very close friend and she said that, “It’s obvious that women have more sex and they enjoy more, I mean how can you think that guys have more sex that’s an insane statement to say. You said it in front of me, don’t say it in front of anyone else ok?” she said in a tone which made me feel like I had just made a really dumb statement. Well I must say that I was happy to hear what this woman was saying. So then I said to myself, “Dude, you are getting closer to the conclusion!” As mentioned earlier I was working so I had greater access to broadminded women so I could bide my time befriend them, be comfortable with them and then ask them the two most important questions. I followed this plan and asked four women; out of which three agreed that it was women who had more sex and enjoyed it more and one said that though women have more sex than men, they do not enjoy it as much as men do. “Hmmm…what made her say that?” I thought, but couldn’t dare to ask her that. This survey was not enough for me to satisfy; I wanted more women to accept that women have more sex and enjoy it more. But this time it had to be married women and so be it. I had one friend who was married and this was what she had to say, “Familiarity breeds to contempt, we obviously want more variety!” When the same question was asked to her husband he say’s, “Well, if this question was asked to me before marriage I would love to say that I wanted variety, but now that I am married I am happy with my wife!” “Wow! Now this is what I called a happily married couple!!” The next couple was the weirdest one, both had the same thing to say and it was, “Yup man, I want more variety and enjoy it more as far as my spouse doesn’t find out!” I was in a mind frame which is called, “SHOCKED!”
Now for all you, the reason behind this small survey was to conclude that it is a myth that men have more sex and they enjoy it more; it’s actually the other way round; its women who have more sex and enjoy it more! So the next time think twice before you actually blame a man to be desperate! Thank you and wait for more!
2 comments:
Well Im happy that you are following my steps. lol.. But in my honest opinion "how can women have more sex than men? dont they need a man to have sex with?" THINK...
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